You wake up every morning, drag yourself out of bed, and push through another day at a job that feels meaningless. You tell yourself it’s because you’re lazy, unmotivated, or just not disciplined enough to push through.
But here’s the truth: You’re not lazy—you’re unfulfilled.
When your work doesn’t align with your purpose, it drains you mentally, emotionally, and physically. Fulfilment is the fuel that keeps us going, and without it, even the most ambitious, driven people feel stuck.
So, how do you reignite that spark? By uncovering your "why"—your deeper purpose—and aligning your life with it.

The Real Reason You Feel Stuck in Your Career
Many women believe that feeling stuck in their career is a reflection of their shortcomings. You might tell yourself:
“I’m just not working hard enough.”
“I need to be more disciplined.”
“I’m probably not cut out for this.”
But the truth is, the problem isn’t your work ethic—it’s the lack of meaning in what you’re doing.
Feeling stuck often isn’t about the job itself. It’s about the disconnect between your work and your sense of purpose. Without purpose, even the most exciting roles can feel empty. Learn more about finding career clarity and life purpose.
Signs You’re Lacking Purpose in Your Job
How can you tell if the real issue is a lack of purpose rather than laziness or burnout? Here are some signs:
You Feel Drained, No Matter How Much You Rest
Physical exhaustion from overwork feels different from the deep mental fatigue that comes from a lack of fulfilment.
You Struggle to Get Excited About Your Work
If you can’t remember the last time you felt truly energised by a project, it’s a sign you’re missing connection and meaning in your job.
You Constantly Procrastinate or Feel Unmotivated
Procrastination isn’t always about avoiding work—it’s often a sign that the work itself doesn’t feel aligned with your values or passions.
You Daydream About Doing Something Else
Whether it’s starting your own business, pursuing a creative passion, or switching industries, these daydreams are often clues to what truly matters to you.
You Feel Guilty for Wanting More
If you’ve ever thought, “I should be grateful for this job,” but still feel unfulfilled, it’s likely because your career doesn’t reflect your deeper purpose.
Are You Lazy or Are You Unmotivated?
Fulfilment is more than just a feel-good buzzword—it’s essential to your well-being and success.
When you find your purpose, it:
Energises You: Purpose provides a natural drive, helping you approach work with enthusiasm.
Builds Resilience: Knowing your “why” helps you push through challenges without feeling drained.
Increases Productivity: Purposeful work feels less like a chore and more like an opportunity, boosting motivation and focus.
Improves Your Mental Health: Fulfillment reduces stress and fosters a greater sense of satisfaction in life.
The problem? Many of us have buried our sense of purpose under societal expectations, external validation, and years of doing what we think we “should” do instead of what we truly want.
If you’ve internalised the belief that your lack of drive is because you’re lazy or unmotivated, it’s time to challenge that narrative.
Here’s the truth:
Laziness is often a sign of misalignment, not a character flaw. When your work doesn’t resonate with your deeper values, your brain resists it.
Motivation comes naturally when you’re doing something you care about. If you’re forcing yourself to feel inspired, it’s a sign that your work isn’t aligned with your purpose.
Imagine this: What if the problem isn’t you? What if the problem is that you’ve been chasing external success instead of inner fulfilment?
The Role of the Subconscious Mind in Feeling Stuck
What many people don’t realise is that the subconscious mind plays a huge role in why we feel stuck in our careers.
The subconscious is where your deepest beliefs, fears, and values live. If you believe you’re not good enough, or that you need to follow a conventional path to be successful, those subconscious patterns will keep you stuck—no matter how much you consciously want to change.
For example:
Fear of Failure: Your subconscious might resist change because it associates failure with shame. Learn how RTT Therapy can address this.
People-Pleasing Tendencies: If you’ve always sought approval, your subconscious may prioritise others’ expectations over your true desires.
Belief That Success = Happiness: You might think external achievements will bring fulfilment, even though your inner self craves purpose.
Until you work with your subconscious mind, these patterns will continue to hold you back, keeping you stuck in a career that doesn’t truly fulfil you.
How to Reignite Your Spark and Find Your Purpose
The good news? You don’t have to stay stuck. By reconnecting with your purpose and working with your subconscious mind, you can create a career (and life) that energises and fulfils you.
1. Ask Yourself the Big Questions
What do I truly care about?
What impact do I want to make?
What would I do if I wasn’t afraid of failing?
Purpose often lies in the intersection of your passions, strengths, and the problems you feel called to solve.
2. Identify Your Core Values
Your values are your internal compass. When your work aligns with your values, it feels meaningful and energising. Take time to reflect on what matters most to you—whether it’s creativity, connection, freedom, or making a difference.
3. Rewrite Subconscious Beliefs
Research highlights that hypnotherapy can effectively reprogram subconscious beliefs, enhancing motivation and focus (NIH article on hypnotherapy). To create lasting change, you need to address the subconscious patterns keeping you stuck. Techniques like hypnotherapy for anxiety, breathwork, and visualisation can help reprogram limiting beliefs and replace them with empowering ones.
4. Take Small, Aligned Actions
You don’t have to overhaul your life overnight. Start with small steps that align with your purpose:
Volunteer for a cause that excites you.
Take a class in something you’re curious about.
Set boundaries at work to prioritise what matters to you.
5. Work With a Subconscious Expert
Sometimes, the best way to gain clarity and make progress is to work with someone who understands how the subconscious mind shapes our actions. A therapist or coach can help you uncover your purpose and create a plan to align your life with it.
Why Fulfilment in Life and Career Cannot Be Overestimated
Studies show that having a clear sense of purpose can significantly improve mental well-being and reduce stress levels (PubMed article on purpose and mental health). Here’s the ultimate “aha” moment: The exhaustion, procrastination, and frustration you feel aren’t signs of failure—they’re signals from your subconscious mind telling you it’s time for change.
Instead of asking, “What’s wrong with me?” start asking:
“What’s missing in my life?”
“What brings me joy and fulfilment?”
“How can I align my work with my deeper purpose?”
When you shift the focus from self-blame to self-discovery, everything changes.
Ready to Rediscover Your Purpose and Reignite Your Spark?
The longer you ignore the feeling of being stuck, the more it will impact your mental health, relationships, and overall happiness. Finding your purpose isn’t just about career satisfaction—it’s about creating a life that feels aligned, joyful, and meaningful.
Imagine waking up every day feeling excited about what you do. Imagine the energy and confidence that come with knowing your work matters. That’s the power of purpose.
If you feel stuck, check out my blog on 20 powerful ways to reconnect with your purpose.
Alternatively, if you’re ready to break free from the cycle of exhaustion and frustration, I can help.
Through subconscious work, we’ll uncover what’s holding you back and help you reconnect with your purpose, so you can:
Feel energised and inspired by your work.
Trust yourself and your path.
Create a career (and life) you love.
💡 Your next step is simple. Book a consultation today and let’s get started on the path to fulfilment.
You’re not stuck because you’re lazy or unmotivated. You’re stuck because your work isn’t aligned with your purpose. The good news? You have the power to change that.
If you feel stuck, book a free hypnotherapy consultation today, and let’s get started.
By working with your subconscious mind and reconnecting with your “why,” you can reignite your spark and create a life filled with meaning and joy.
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